Should this relationship continue or cut losses? First, look at the stability of the relationship.

The most draining relationships are not those filled with arguments, but those with long-term uncertainty. You keep convincing yourself, only to be constantly brought back to square one by reality.

Fortune-telling can help you see clearly whether this relationship is a 'phase of adjustment' or a 'structural mismatch'.

Common troubles

• Breaking up and getting back together repeatedly, the relationship lacks stability
• One party invests a lot, while the other remains consistently indifferent
• Communication always gets out of control, and the more I explain, the more hurt I feel.
• Worried that continuing to invest will lead to greater losses

Key dimensions of relationship judgment

1. Relationship Structure: Complementary or Mutual Drain

Some combinations are very attractive in the short term, but in the long run, they amplify conflicts and emotional costs.

2. Source of conflict: rhythm conflict or value conflict

Rhythm issues can be adjusted, but fundamental value conflicts are often difficult to repair.

3. Risk Window: Is This Year a High-Risk Period

Some years are more likely to trigger a third party, Cold War escalation, and relationship breakdowns.

4. Are there repairable conditions?

The key to determining whether it is worthwhile to continue depends on whether both parties have room for adjustment.